Soul Midwifery - Lesley Gough

Soul Midwifery. A Journey of Love, Kindness, and Compassion

As a Soul Midwife, my heart’s calling is to create a sanctuary of calm, love, and understanding for those approaching the end of their earthly journey and their beloved families.

With gentle compassion I can shine a light on the path ahead, offering education, explanation, and reassurance that the experiences and feelings arising are natural parts of this sacred transition.

Opening Hearts and Conversations

Part of my loving work is to tenderly open conversations about death and loss – topics that can often feel challenging or uncomfortable. I’m reminded of the beautiful parallel between birth and death, two sacred thresholds that form the circle of life. Imagine if we approached death with the same joy, preparation, and openness as we do birth. This is the loving transformation I hope to bring to each soul I serve.

The Sacred Dance of Life and Death

I envision our journey like this: We labour to enter this world, sometimes gently, sometimes intensely. Similarly, our departure can be a gentle whisper or a profound struggle. As we enter life with that first gasp of air, we leave by slowly relinquishing our breath – a beautiful, sacred dance of existence. Our bodies carry the wisdom for both living and dying. We are born, we experience the richness of life, and then we transition onward. It is the circle of life, a journey of love and light from beginning to end.

Honouring Each Soul's Unique Path

With deep compassion, I help each person plan for their final days, always honouring their wishes with loving care. Whether they choose to transition in a hospital, at home, surrounded by loved ones, or in solitude, each detail is treated with reverence. From the music that soothes their soul to the hands they wish to hold, every aspect is infused with love and respect. For those who wish, we create legacy work together – beautiful, tangible expressions of love to leave behind. Whether it’s a heartfelt letter, a cherished recipe collection, or a video message, each is a testament to the enduring power of love.

The Sacred Moment of Transition

Witnessing a soul’s final breath is as awe-inspiring and sacred as a newborn’s first cry. It is a moment of profound importance, tinged with sadness yet worthy of deep reverence and love.

The Essence of Soul Midwifery

Soul Midwives are compassionate companions on the journey of transition. We hold space with love and light, offering gentle therapies to soothe and reassure. Our care is non-denominational, rooted in deep listening and heartfelt conversation. We begin our journey of support from the moment of diagnosis, encouraging each soul to live fully, wrapped in love, until their final moment. We are transforming the experience of dying and living within our communities, helping to create tender, peaceful, and conscious transitions filled with love and dignity.

Our Loving Approach

Listen deeply and provide gentle, compassionate care always
Work holistically, honouring the whole being of each person
Keep a loving, light-filled vigil
Create and hold a sacred, healing space
Recognise and support individual needs for a tranquil transition
Use sound, touch, colour, and scent to alleviate pain and anxiety with loving kindness
Support families and loved ones with compassion
Advocate with heart for those in our care

A New Way of Dying

While we all face the journey of death, there are transitions filled with peace and love, and those that are more challenging. Most of us hope for a gentle passage, free from pain, surrounded by loved ones. Soul Midwives strive to make this beautiful vision a reality, ensuring each transition is dignified, peaceful, and filled with love.

Drawing on ancient wisdom and modern understanding, we apply these skills with compassion in our modern world, easing the journey for those transitioning. Whether at home, in a hospital, or hospice, we accompany each soul with love, light, and tender care.

“Those who have the strength and the love to sit with a dying patient in the silence that goes beyond words will know that this moment is neither frightening nor painful, but a peaceful cessation of the functioning of the body.”

Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, author “On Death and Dying”

The 12 Principles of Soul Midwifery

To work as non-medical holistic companions, guiding and supporting with love and light
To recognise and honour each individual's unique needs with compassion
To create and hold a sacred, healing space filled with love
To respect and honour all spiritual beliefs with an open heart
To serve as non-denominational practitioners, embracing all beliefs about life, death, and beyond
To listen deeply and provide gentle, compassionate care always
To offer healing through gentle techniques, alleviating pain and anxiety with kindness
To give healing, using sound, touch, colour, scented oils or other gentle techniques to alleviate pain and anxiety.
To keep a loving, light-filled vigil
To work holistically at all levels of transition, honouring the whole being
To support families and loved ones with tender, human care
To provide comfort and continuous support, helping each soul experience the transition they hope for, surrounded by love and light

Together, let us transform the journey of transition into one of love, light, and profound peace.

Lesley Gough

Soul Midwife

Embracing Life's Final Chapter with Compassion, Weaving Loving-Kindness and Wisdom into Every Moment.

Soul Midwifery. A Journey of Love, Kindness, and Compassion

Opening Hearts and Conversations

The Sacred Dance of Life and Death

Honouring Each Soul's Unique Path

The Sacred Moment of Transition

The Essence of Soul Midwifery

Our Loving Approach

A New Way of Dying

The 12 Principles of Soul Midwifery

An Invitation to Connect in Love and Light

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